My Scratch Pad

To jot down some memorable events in my journey

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Friends


When I put this title in the “Next to come” section of my previous blog, my idea was to just put the photos taken with some of my friends on New Year Day. But that would not do any justice to the title of this post and to my other friends. So, came up with a photo gallery of my friends through the years. This is still not a complete set of photos as I have not taken photos with some groups (Sigh). They will get a mention here, however. :D

Statutory Warning: This is a pretty long post, so it is left to your discretion to continue reading :D

OK… let’s start from pre-school...
Guess who the two kids below are ?



Of course, the little girl is me. Wondering whoz the little boy? Is it my first boyfriend? ;D I wont keep you guessing further… the little boy is also me :D. Taken 2 months after tonsure at Tirupati :D Me and my best friend “Me”.

Fast forward life by about 8 months…. I was in nursery in a school called “Kenmore English School” in Basavanagudi, Bangalore. I do not remember many friends from this school except for Monisha (who was also my neighbour), Vasantha and Umesh.


This is the snap taken during first year of school. Are you trying to search me based on the previous photo? :D I am standing in the first row right between the heads of the two teachers.

Hop, skip and jump another 3 years.

This is a photo taken on my 6th birthday. Along with me, are my neighbours and my cousins’ (who were also my neighbours). Seated are Namitha (my first cousin) and myself. Standing (L to R) Ajay, Kavitha (the tall girl), Monisha (the shorter girl – also my nursery friend), Balu (actual name is Ram Prasad. I never remember calling him like that :D) and Ashwin (Namitha’s elder brother). They were my playmates in our Vataara (group of houses in the same compound). I remember playing all kinds of games with them. Cricket, Hide n Seek, Crossing the Crocodile, Postman, Mara kothi aata and what not. I also remember watching Jackie Chan movies on VCR, a luxury that time, in Monisha’s house.

Meanwhile, I joined “The Home School”, one of the very renowned schools in Basavanagudi, for my primary Schooling. This school has taught me a lot– the discipline inculcated in me, the sense of responsibility, the fighting spirit etc. Words would not do justice. This was the golden era of my schooling and fairy tale period when the entire school was a gang. Below is the photo taken during my 3rd Standard.

I am seated in last row, second from left. Good friends of that time are Muktha, Bala, Seema, Saritha, Godha, Krithika, Deepak, Roopashree, Rashmi, Pavan, Amit ( 2 of them), Prithvi, Goutham, Garud and many many more…

Special mention of two people here. Garud – One of the most dynamic people I have ever seen. I really admired him even from school days.

Secondly, Goutham.

I think, he is my longest known friend. I almost know him for 20 years now!!!! A great friend and a great person to be with and learn from. Extremely sensitive to other’s issues and a great listener when you want to crib. He is a good hobby photographer.

I had to move to another school for High Schooling as “The Home School” did not offer high school educationL. I joined “Vijaya High School” in South End Circle, Bangalore. Another golden period of my academic life started here. My major “achievements”, if I may call so, in academics occurred during this period. Those were the teenage days and it was considered fishy if you speak to guys!! Of course, I too dint speak with them. I fought!!! A special mention of the first bench fight club which comprised of Nagendra and Deepak. We fought for books from the City Central Library next to our school. I remember, how we had bribed the librarian in the Children’s section for the new books of Tintin, Asterix, Nancy Drew, Hardy Boys (Now, don’t ask me how these fall into Children’s books section). So, Deepa, Nagendra Deepak and I, the fight queen, used to fight like crazy for those fresh new books. I used to really like the smell of freshly printed books. Some more friends of those times are Shubha, Susmitha, Pratibha, Krupa and Soumya. Soumyashree and Susmitha continued to junior college as well. I also attended some training sessions for a nation-wide competitive examination called NTSE. Vibha, Trishala, Sadhana and Priya were my friends there. Unfortunately, I do not have the photo of the exact gang I used to hang out with but here is photo taken during a ceremony after passing out of high school.

That’s Nandini, Krupa, myself, Sindhu, Shubha and Soumya

I joined “National College, Jayanagar” for my Pre-University course. Those two years were the best two years of my academic life. Loads of fun with my friends Deepthi, Soumya, Susmitha and Vani. Be it ABN’s ( a lecturer) blade classes. Be it admiring Ruppu (RPU – another lecturer). Be it watching cutey – cuddly princy VS when he sang the prayer. Be it watching some flowers in the garden and finding out which inflorescence they belonged to (we had dedicated one flower to Deepthi) (Thanks to Deepthi and Soumya to help me find this snap, a leaf out of that golden period)

Above is the snap of Soumya, Deepthi, Myself, Susmitha and Vani. A line about each of them is a must before I proceed.

Soumya – Very simple and hardworking (she should be as she is doing her PhD in organic chemistry. Phew!!)

Deepthi - Superwoman :D. A fellow blogger.

Susmitha – Another dare devil. Very independent and has a mind of her own.

Vani – Simple, down to earth and cleanliness queen.

Time Machine apparates and lands two years later in Engineering College.

Again, that’s not the exact gang I used to hang out with (did I have a gang?).
The ones in the snap are Vasanthi, myself, Srividya, Vinay and Anuj.

Srividya was a good singer. Unfortunately, I had some fight with her for some silly reasons and we “split”. This was my first ever “serious” fight. I dint even know how to sort out fights then. May be, I will try to make up now if I get to meet her.

Vinay – a great friend of mine. Learnt a lot from him. Enjoyed a lot with him as well in paper presentation contests, IISc, college project, labs and at ice-cream joints. My inclination towards technology is mainly due to him. Added on several kilos to myself due to umpteen ice-creams trips with him.

I used to attend training sessions in PESIT (an engineering college in Bangalore) during that period. Friends from these sessions were Ashwini, Nithya, Dhanya, Amruthashree and others. I also used to attend computer classes (that’s what they called it :D) in NIIT.

Kala and Shobha are friends from NIIT. Kala was an actress in Kannada soaps as well!! She was good student and extremely neat in maintaining her books. Shobha and I used to spend at least an hour after classes speaking, sitting on our two-wheelers.

After engineering, I joined a “reputed” software company in Bangalore. I did not know anybody in our training batch. So, just went and sat down next to “silent” girl Latha. She is the topper in our training batch. A good friend of mine. Got to know Joy (Tridip) through her. He is “Mr. Patience Personified” and very caring person.

This was the actual photo that had to make to this blog. That’s me with Latha, Joy and Goutham.

During the first year of work, I got seriously involved in some community activities. These activities were made fun and I longed for them every weekend due to Raghu, Amit, Sneha, Vidya and others.

Latha left the company we were working for after 2 years. Then, it was Neha’s turn to get bugged by me.

That’s Neha with me and my brother. If you want to know something latest in fashion, refer to Nehapedia. :D

So, I have run through a list of names. I know how torturous that is :D

Each stage of life is so wonderful. Remembering those stages in the right sense is even more wonderful. There have been so many people who have come, influenced and left my life. There will be tons more to come. Ok…its high time I wind up now by flicking a line from the poem “The Brook” and tweaking it as follows:

“(Wo)men may come and (wo)men may go, but I shall go on forever..er…for some more time” :D

Movie of the moment: Dil Chahta Hain

Next to Come: Beauty beyond the eyes

13 Comments:

At 5:30 AM, Blogger Deeps said...

Very beautiful post. I guess the post covered every friend you had. I don't think I even have photos of my first company batch mates and colleagues. Just aira gaira snaps taken while having lunch etc :). Glad to be of help (regarding the photo) and I miss "my flower" a lot here ;-).

 
At 6:46 PM, Blogger Vanditha said...

Thanks. I loving viewing these snaps over and over again. Made a digital way of remembering them.

Hey... I have a huge row of trees with "your flower" right in front of my house. Mebbe, I will take a snap and send it across. You can also digitally see it :D

 
At 10:11 AM, Blogger Joyee said...

Hey Vandy,
Trust me, I have no words to say.
Its an affirmation, an affirmation called love that you have expressed in your blog.

I knew a saying sometime back, that I felt had waded away.
I am beginning to believe that its that five letter beauty
called "FRIEND" that really makes a difference to a "UNO".

Every Para personifying a friend
is like a bead of a necklace, a miss of even one makes it a thread .

Emotional viod now,
Cut it da
I really loved the journey of your blog.
Keep Writing and Enthusing
Lov
from Mr. Patience Personified
sorry "stored energy pwersonified-framed by you silent sweet friend latha
joyee

 
At 7:50 PM, Blogger Vanditha said...

Joyee,
Thanks man.. Those words are really encouraging...:D

 
At 10:32 AM, Blogger N said...

hey..nice blog .. saw it on harish's site.. your style of ending the post with secret of the moment or poem or movie and next to come is good... atleast the next to come would make you write soon for sure.

 
At 10:35 AM, Blogger N said...

hey..the photos you posted here go really well with the content of the post..

 
At 8:37 PM, Blogger Vanditha said...

Hi Solitary Reaper,

Thanks for stopping by my blog and your feedback. Many people liked the "Next to come" section and the ending style. Actually started this because I had lot of ideas when I initially published my blog. Now, will continue with this as ppl liked it.

Hope the next to come section keeps me writing

 
At 2:33 PM, Blogger Soumya said...

Hey vandu,

Sorry I was late on this...

Great post...The journey was so good...I know more about ur friends now than I ever knew before...

Fighting for books from CCL was such a hungama at that time...I remember how I used to sit in the last bench and would come over to where u guys were during lunch...You'd always finish ur lunch even before I'd opened my lunchbox...Do u still eat that fast??I haven't changed a bit...I'm still the last one to finish eating..

Yeah, I miss "Deepthi hoovu" too...I really went back to those days...Wonderful, weren't they??VS singing during the assembly, remember the way he used to ask Deepthi "ninna tale hegide?" after that little accident she had?? Those sure were golden days man...Thanks to u for reviving those memories...

My favourite photo is the first one...U with the doll...Its wonderful...

Keep writing...Waiting for beauty beyond the eyes...

 
At 10:00 PM, Blogger Vanditha said...

Hey Soum,

Nice to see you back on my blog...

Yeah...reviving those memories was very emotional for me too..

I still eat that fast...:D And I am sure you still maintain your pace...courtesy mosaranna... :D

 
At 11:58 AM, Blogger Anil.kumar03@gmail.com said...

wow , lucky you, have so many childhood photos, I have none :((

nice remniscence looking into your childhood albums, your eyes feel so fresh

-ATG

 
At 5:47 AM, Blogger Vanditha said...

Anil,

Ya.. I have a lot of childhood snaps and had a tough time finalizing a few. :D

Wow!! Thanks for saying something nice about eyes :D

 
At 5:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Vanditha,

Just went through your blog. You're just the same as ever. Very well thought over and well written story of friends who're and have been in your life. I just thought we might as well make up for our "silly fight" now.....:)
I'm not a blogger, so this is my e-mail id and maybe I'll get to read an e-mail from you soon. srividyay@yahoo.com

-- Srividya

 
At 2:27 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

hey vanditha!!!

hi , the roopashree you know is it roopashree k n. i need to know.She s ma cousin an i have no contact, so if it is the roopashree k n you know pls get back to me.....

 

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